January 24, 2013

Standing Ovations at Work


I love coming to work! I realize that having that excitement about going to work puts me in the minority, but working at the Y is fun.

We had our annual meeting this week where we celebrated some of the Y’s accomplishments from 2012. One of the highlights of the meeting was when I got to call forward all of the Y staff and the volunteers gave them a standing ovation! That was a goose bump moment for me. Hopefully the staff felt loved, appreciated and encouraged.

We also just got new spin bikes at one of our branches, and I walked into the spin class yesterday to see how they were being received and the 25 people applauded me. (All I do is approve the purchase and sign the check but yet they were thanking me!)

We should have more ovations at work. I know it doesn’t happen every day but I hope everyone gets to experience that Rudy moment when you walk into work. If YOU have never had that feeling at work, you should send me your resume because you need to work at the Y!
Click here for scene from Rudy

January 9, 2013

Resolutions, Confessions and Just Stuff

 
Watching the Food Network when you are hungry is like looking at Food Porn. My fantasy job is hosting Diners, Drive Ins and Dives.
I am coming out of the closet! In 2013 my resolution is not to hide the fact that I am a Taylor Swift fan. Oh I hear all you haters out there trying to beat her down. You’re just jealous. I thought about that Wednesday…at CafĂ©…Again!
This may get me kicked out of the Man Club, but the older I get, the more I cry. I can’t turn it off. I see a sweet picture on Facebook – misty eyed. I read a touching story in Sports Illustrated – water works. A friend shares a wonderful family moment – big lump in the throat.
2nd resolution for 2013, and I need help on this one…..I want to do a youtube video to the song Call Me Maybe.
Of all the famous people who died in 2012, I think I will miss Andy Griffith the most. Jack Klugman is second because I loved the show The Odd Couple and my mom called me Oscar Madison when I was a kid. (Note to remember to tell therapist about mother’s criticism)
Can anyone play Words with Friends and not cheat?  
I love listening to Andy Stanley’s sermons.
Our theme at the Y for 2013 is that “Hope is Not a Strategy.”
My final New Year’s Resolution for 2013 is to bring more HOPE to my world!
Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself. There is no commandment greater than these. – Mark 12:30-31

November 19, 2012

Will Ethics and Education Ever Matter?


As a lifelong Tar Heel fan, the recent academic issues that have embroiled the athletic department have hurt my heart. I think it was just my naivetĂ© that hoped that Carolina was above the fray. Now it’s hard to watch the sports and not just be cynical.
College sports, so closely tied to American higher education, are under threat. Pushed on all sides for quick success, Coaches, Administrators, Athletic Directors, and University Presidents have adopted a win-at-any price mentality. Graduation rates are abysmal, admission standards are ignored, and teams pay enormous sums for the opportunity to destroy hapless foes. (See the SEC football schedule this past weekend) Thinking they can just turn a blind eye to what they most assuredly know is the common practice.
Money flows freely between TV networks and university bank accounts, even as the quality of the education steadily decays. Rather than an expectation of honor, discipline, and teamwork, young men are constantly bombarded by the supposed importance of their personal self-worth. A select few teams like my UNC Tar Heels have perfected the fraud, sacrificing their academic missions, and student-athletes, in the name of relevance and revenue. These schools are lauded for their on-field excellence, even as they create horrifying monuments of shame off the playing fields and courts. This travesty of a system continues to gorge itself, with calls for change dismissed as hopeless idealism.
This wake-up call has me firmly believing that you can count on every institution to have this problem. Aside from Notre Dame, Stanford, Vanderbilt and Northwestern, the other 296 NCAA schools are falling woefully below standard. Don’t tell me how your school does this or that, with a deeper look you too will be like me and soon be smacked into reality.
And to the Universities that continue this fraud, you should be asked to reach out to the countless decades of athletes who perpetuate our society with very little employable skills and pay for them a REAL education and guarantee their degree.
Some would say that schools like the above 4 could not compete in the present climate.  I’m proud that Notre Dame is competing in football and also is #1 in graduation rates.
I want a university that I can sit in my chair and be proud of on the field, in the classroom, and contributing to society. I need to believe once again that ethics and education matter.



October 26, 2012

KIKO, the LEFT and the RIGHT

I must confess I did not watch the debate Monday night. I felt there were more pressing issues, namely the Lions vs. Bears. Besides, I can have the lap top out and read the counter comments from my Facebook friends from the Left and the Right.

A few of the Facebook political comments were amusing, but most were just annoying. It gave me a great reason and opportunity to pair-down my friends list.

Interestingly though, I kept reading about this Giraffe on my Facebook news feed. At first I thought maybe it was some code about the debate. You know, Elephants & Donkeys and now there is some meaning behind the term Giraffes. Maybe the Giraffe was for the Tea Party or the Occupy group. But none of the posts made sense.

In the end I learned that a baby Giraffe was born at the Greenville zoo. It felt good to wake up Tuesday and to find most of my Facebook News feed be about Kiko the new baby Giraffe. That reading material was much more palatable.

I am not saying that we should have nothing to say about important issues and those that relate to politics. I think though that we should model more careful and reasoned discussion. Debates should be less about being right and more about being respected. We should respect someone enough to listen to their views because I want them to listen and respect my views. It’s not about winning the argument it’s about being heard and having a productive conversation. (My wife is rolling her eyes right now)

In the end, we shouldn’t be looking for government to save our world. Newspring Church Pastor Perry Noble says, “Yes, our country is in desperate need of change…but the kind brought about when God’s grace collides with our sinfulness. We’ve got to remember while politics will try to control the world; the Gospel is the only thing that can change it.”

In the end I think God was speaking to me when I became interested in Kiko. I think he was saying that the debates might be on dozens of TV stations, but in reality He is in control and He is the One that gives life and he is the One that can transform lives.

He also says that he created the Giraffe and as unusual as Kiko looks, it was not a mistake….and neither are YOU!